Sad reunion

20 08 2008

I got the phone call I was dreading this morning.  Mulder had been found.  Or all that was left of him.Mulder

Symbolically all that remained was a paw.  Which is fitting as regardless of where he sat when he sat with you, he always had to rest one paw on you.  Just to be touching at all times.

So, while it’s tragic and sad, we finally have an answer, he was killed by a coyote, just as we expected, but at least now we’ll not be left eternally wondering.

I’ve decided to have his paw cremated, and his ashes returned to Australia where he was born.

Mulder you were the best of friends, much more than a pet and a cat, you were my little buddy.  We’d been though so much together.  Everyone who met you, loved you.

There were times in previous houses where we thought we’d lost you, only to hear a knock on the door late in the evening, and find you safe in the arms of a neighbour.   You’d wandered into their house to share your love, and spend an evening on their couch.  They’d carry you home, so your paws wouldn’t get cold.

There was even a morning when another neighbour came over to tell us she’d stepped out of the shower to find you curled up on her bed looking up at her.  When we moved away, other neighbour’s bought you farewell gifts, while we, "your staff" got no more than a cursory goodbye…

You’ll always be in our hearts and memories.

Mulder; 24th October 1995 to 10th August 2008.  Rest in Peace.

I’ve shared this poem before, and I’ll share it again, as it’s never been more appropriate than now; Rainbow Bridge.

Rainbow Bridge
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor.  Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance.  His bright eyes are intent.  His eager body quivers.  Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again.
The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together…

Author Unknown


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15 responses

20 08 2008
Matthew

I’m so sorry about Mulder…

Your poem brings tears to my eyes…

20 08 2008
Maus

So sad. Love to you all.

20 08 2008
mum

Well now you know, Sad ,but you can now rest from looking you did all you could & more ,he is now with all our other pets playing safe till you meet up again bye Mulder [ nanny.}xxx

21 08 2008
petmemorialworld

It is a special thing to have been owned by a cat. Sorry to hear about your loss of Mulder.

21 08 2008
Pip

Hi Craig,

I’m really sad to read about Mulder. I only met him a couple of times but he was a beautiful boy.

My furry gang and I send Mulder, yourself and Mark our love and best wishes.

Take care.

Pip

21 08 2008
Amber

Dearest Craig -I’m so very sad to read about Mulders fate. You have written a fitting tribute and it must be some comfort to know he had a great life and was spoilt rotten by his parents! Thinking of you.
xxxx

21 08 2008
Peter

Goodbye Mulder.

Let your Spirit roam the meadows and hills of Rainbow Bridge.

Condolences to “the staff” aka Mark and Craig.

21 08 2008
sue bryant

Hi Craig ~

I offer you my sympathy. So unexpected and sad. It’s always sad when they go but this circumstance is especially hard. I am so glad you have closure as that will help.
That is a lovely picture of Mulder sleeping w you. My dear kitty friend Marigold used to do that too.

Sue B

21 08 2008
James

{{ HUGGS }}

21 08 2008
Tyroga

Geez that’s hard to read, sorry for your loss. I can’t think of anything else to say, because I know that nothing can be said to make you feel better at a time like this.

Just remember the good times.

21 08 2008
Brad

Rest in peace Mulder!

21 08 2008
kato

A cat thats had a fantastic life full of great adventure.
Sleep soundly forever xx.

He’s got family to keep him company at Rainbow Bridge.
C u there.

22 08 2008
Rhonda

I am so sad for you. The love between a pet and human is amazing and transcends the years. You bought a tear to my eye, and I’ve never met either you or Mulder. Grieve for him and don’t let anyone tell you he “was only a cat”.

24 08 2008
birdwoman

again, so sorry. Poor kitty. Poor Craig and Mark.

😦

25 08 2008
Craig

Thank you everyone, we really appreciate it. We keep expecting to see him walk through the door, or jump in our laps, it’s going to take some time, but at least we were fortunate enough to have had him in our lives while he was with us. 🙂

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